2012 brought an unexpected job change for me and, along with it, a massive distraction that has kept me from any meaningful crafting for months. My life was upended and the ship hasn't righted itself yet. Things are very out of balance.
I miss being driven to "make". My brain has been so filled with all the new stuff I have to learn (a new industry, new people, new tasks), I've had trouble lighting the creative spark. I need to find a way to bring that back to the forefront - to look forward to what's on my needles or what new craft I can learn.
A very wise friend and mentor told me once that resolutions "set us up for failure and feeling sh**ty about ourselves. The resolutions people make are usually about fixing themselves and their lives, based on “there is something wrong here” or even worse, “there is something wrong with me.”
[Editorial tangent: if you're interested in doing something more productive than just making resolutions, I invite you to visit his blog post entitled "Looking Back, Looking Forward" which is a three-part exercise developed to help you create closure for this year and plan for the next.]
So, I figured it might be a good idea to apply this thinking to my crafting. There are a lot of things I'd like to to with my knitting/sewing/upholstery/etc but I need to be realistic about what I can accomplish, especially considering my current "creative block". With this in mind, here are a few crafty goals for 2013:
There's an app for that. |
This can't be too hard, right? |
Something like this... |
The chair that started it all. |
4. Finish upholstering stuff. I originally took the upholstery class because I didn't want to pay someone to recover a particular chair. I'm now working on chair number six. Sadly, I thought I was going to have all my upholstery completed by December 2011. Ha!! I took one semester off and I had one project that was a total bear and took an entire semester to finish. However, I have no space for new furniture so my goal is to finish what I've got left by the end of fall semester 2013.
I want a Kenyan Top Bar hive. |
5. BEES! I've talked about getting bees for the last three years. I came close last year but waited to long and then it was too late to order the actual insects. I've decided on the type of hive I want so I just need to buy one and get the bees at the right time this spring. Fingers crossed that it actually happens in 2013.
I hope that 2013 brings all of you health, happiness, and success in whatever goal(s) you set for yourself. Just remember, don't make resolutions that make you feel sh**ty about yourself. Set goals that, when you reach them, allow you to celebrate how awesome you are.
- Alex
I personally don't make resolutions, I have goals. To me, it is less strict and doesn't have the pressure of a resolution. If I don't get to it this year, no worries, it remains a goal.
ReplyDeleteAs for cables - honestly they're so easy you'll wonder what all the fuss was about ;) I was amazed at how simple they are, considering how complicated they look. Why not knit a swatch with a cable in, just so you can see?
Yeah... the word "goals" seems better to me than "resolutions". :) I love your idea about doing some cable swatches! It's not a big committment and I can get comfortable with it before I start a real project. THANKS!
DeleteI'm sure you'll be getting all the new job's requirements sorted out little by little and you mind will again have some "open" time to offer opportunities for creativity. (I was fortunate to have that sort of opening emerge during the second half of 2012.)
ReplyDeleteWhat you think about cables is similar to what I thought about knitting socks until I "turned" my first heel and realized it was easy. Just takes place stitch by stitch.
Best wishes.
Frances - Thank you so much for your encouraging words. :) I really like the idea of "stitch by stitch". I believe that baby steps are the way to conquering anything so this is just a crafty version of that!
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